Before I complete this, you’ve GOT to hear this story. I was swimming the other day, and as I was swimming, I conversed with this lifeguard instructor about joining his group. Though I would later determine that he wasn’t in the budget (I’m studying and practicing Krav Maga as SOON AS I CAN), I went for another swim today… and they had asked that I “play the victim” for about fifteen minutes.
So, I floated “dead in the water” as these buff guys struggled to slide this tube underneath my back. One of them, after I had to consciously lift my head up to breath for air, pressed his hands against the sides of my head to lift my head up… the first time worked well (for me), but one of the guys needed to sacrifice HIS air to keep me up–and it’s obviously unacceptable for the lifeguard to die in a rescue mission 🙂
One of the times that they rescued me, too, I was practically choking for air because they were having a hard time getting my head up from under the water because they couldn’t really push the tube underneath me (and these guys, I would later find out, had trained in the National Guard–so they were buff at this point), Maybe I had taken the “victim” role a bit too far, because I was intensely struggling for air at one point!
Besides the lifeguard rescue mission, I had chosen to swim AND run the Al Sabo trail (near a local community college). I must say that this was a very interesting run because I sort of just “winged it.” I winged this after-swim run because: 1) I didn’t have a watch time the specifics of the Hour of Power (i.e. Warm-Up, Run, Warm-Down), 2) I didn’t feel comfortable with the territory, yet, so being loud (i.e. incanting) would need to be taken up one notch at a time, and 3) I overall have seen better trails than this one–so I didn’t get as much of that special “connected to nature” feeling as I normally get.
By the end of that run, I was mosquito-bitten (specifically: On the back of my neck), almost disoriented, and fantasizing about fucking this girl on “the lookout,” which is this dock suspended by long telephone poles over a very steep hill, where another trail lines the bottom of. Also, by the end of that run, I just felt overall less satisfied with my workout than I usually am… but perhaps that’s just because it was a new territory that I hadn’t familiarized myself with.
Anyway, I’ve dilly-dallied a LOT before completing today’s challenge (completing the calibration preparation for tomorrow), so I think you’ll rather enjoy it a LOT if we actually complete it now, eh? Haha, alright then! 🙂
Anyway, this post shall come to you completed VERY soon. Enjoy the current calibration attempts so far! Here are the questions to answer:
- What best personality type is she?
- Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven?
- Does she have high or low self-esteem?
- How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) –>
- What best is her self-image?
- What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)?
- Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad?
- Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)?
- What best are her needs?
- Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for?
Note: I have personally recorded the names for myself–so I’ll always know who these are, in case you were wondering “How will you remember this in the future?” Here are the analyses:
1. Am*****
- Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judger (7-1-4)
- Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Kinesthetically
- Does she have high or low self-esteem? 8.7
- How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 9
- What best is her self-image? Hooters Girl + Girlfriend? I think the guy I saw was her bro
- What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + Tailoring (Cosmetology)
- Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? 2nd Youngest; Close to dad
- Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Physical 1 Emotional 2
- What best are her needs? High status–extreme detachment from her and high focus–what best is does the average guy neglect to do?
- Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? In college following a forming purpose; Looking for love and highest-status acceptance
2. Li*****
- What best personality type is she? Extraverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiver (5-7-1)
- Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Auditorially
- Does she have high or low self-esteem? 8
- How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 9
- What best is her self-image? Hooters Girl + Stripper + Smoker + Fiancee
- What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters (that’s it)
- Is she an older (= more caring)/younger (= more “taking” or selfish) sibling, close to mom/dad? 2nd oldest (one brother older two brothers younger; Super Close to Mom (Dad?)
- Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Emotional 1 Logical 2
- What best are her needs? High status–Social proof that it’s okay to connect–time off–extreme detachment from her and high focus–what best is does the average guy neglect to do?
- Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? In college studying Marketing in her spare time–in the process of loving her soon-to-be hubby; Healing + Actual growth in her life
3. Re***** (Copied from above–disregard until complete 🙂 )
- What best personality type is she? Introverted Intuitive Thinking Judger (5-8-4)
- Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Auditorially
- Does she have high or low self-esteem? 6.8
- How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 7
- What best is her self-image? Hooters Manager, Hard Worker, “Does things right,” Wife, Lover, Hippy,
- What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + eBay
- Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? Younger; Close to dad, far from mom
- Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Logical 1 Emotional 2
- What best are her needs? High status–extreme detachment from her and high focus–what best is does the average guy neglect to do; someone to be more alpha than her and make her feel like the little girl she once was
- Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? Passing on into her honeymoon years–as a mom?–getting her as much income as possible; she’s looking for as much security as possible
4. St*****
- What best personality type is she? Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Judger (5-8-4
- Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Kinesthetically
- Does she have high or low self-esteem? 6.8
- How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 4
- What best is her self-image? “Bad Girl,” Tough
- What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + barista at Starbucks
- Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? Younger; Close to Dad, far from Mom
- Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Physical 1 Logical 2
- What best are her needs? High status–Strength
- Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? Just making money as she goes through college–
5. S*****
- What best personality type is she? Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Judger (5-8-4)
- Is she visual, auditorially, or kinesthetically driven? Auditorially
- Does she have high or low self-esteem? 4
- How best sexually open or reserved is she? 1 (Low) to 10 (HIghest) 5
- What best is her self-image? Bartendress, sexy bitch, etc.
- What best does she do for work (this one’s easy)? Hooters + retailer
- Is she an older/younger sibling, close to mom/dad? Middle child; parental trouble–a bit frazzled (closish with mom)
- Is she a physical, emotional, logical primary (secondary)? Physical, Logical)
- What best are her needs? High status–Love; Variety
- Where best is she in life and what best is she looking for? Single, looking for a decent BF and fuck-friend; someone strong and high-status
So far, this has gone really well for me. By doing this, I really feel that I’m beginning to recognize how much I don’t really see in the people around me. By doing this, I’m beginning to recognize that this was a skill that I THOUGHT I had down… but didn’t. By doing this, I now recognize that there ARE different models of reality and that I need to become more conscious of them if I really want to make any progress over the “terrain of women.”
Neil even says in his book, Rules of the Game (roughly paraphrased), “Before you start the journey, know your terrain.” Well, that’s a general rule for EVERYTHING: War, Peace, Coding, Social Networking, Internet Marketing… Also, we get what we focus on, right? So, by focusing on the type of person that she is–the more I will get of her because of my focus on that person. Does that make sense?
Well, we’ll see how this turns out, because calibration is an ass-ton of fun when done successfully in the moment with a woman–because she will literally think you’re psychic, haha.
Anyway, that’s the minimum for today’s challenge–I still have a bit of meditating, vision-building, etc. to do before I go snooze for a few hours (I’m definitely waking up at four-thirty tomorrow to do my run–it’s so important because I feel so much more “on” when I do! Also, not only do I feel on, but I actually get it in without fear of a heat stroke (it’s getting hotter and hotter during the day at the moment–and I usually get out at 12:00 PM).
Did you like this? Let me know if you did! I always listen… \m/
Let’s converse tomorrow, shall we? 🙂
Your Bro,
Aaron
P.S. Did you know that the plural of analysis is “analyses?” 🙂
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Fucking Hell, Man! 